3 Days

Let's Talk 3Days....
I was raised and always taught, when making a decision about something important, wait 3 days. If I am rushed into a decision that I need to know right at that very moment, my answer is always No. Wait 3 days. It gives you time to process it rationally and emotionally with out force. Even if you are having a bad day or going through a bad time and you just want to give up. Wait 3 days. Your outlook can and usually does totally change after 3 days. This teaching started with my religious upbringing. My dad would say to me, Jesus had the worse day of His life on Friday, but Sunday, 3 days later, He made history. 2000 years later we are still talking about it.
And I must admit, it has always worked for me, even in the very tough times. Or shall I say especially in the tough times. This even works with simple decisions that you really just don't know what to do. I'm not saying constantly think about it for 3 days. I am saying just ask, what shall I do and let it go. The answer will come and be made very clear. You will either see signs or just feel differently about the whole thing. You will be able to make the decision in peace instead of stress.  So, if you are feeling indecisive, pressured, down, frustrated or frightened......Wait 3 Days.
                                                 Anne

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Experiment #4 - Are you being specific?!

Ready to hear my results from the last experiment?! First, let me share that I had to skip over one of the experiments because I did not have the proper materials to go through with it 100%. I do plan to go back to do it at some point, but for now I moved on to the next experiment.

You might have heard when it comes to the Law of Attraction, we must be specific to what we want. We cannot just say I want enough money to get me by. The reason for this is because the Universe as well as our subconscious minds do not know that when you say 'enough' you might mean one million dollars. But, you might be feeling or sending vibrations out there that could send the message that 'enough' to you means one thousand dollars due to fear, doubt, or maybe even resistance that you have associated with money. So you see the problem here?

Whenever you are creating what you want to be as specific as possible. Have as many details written down as possible! If you want to create a pet dog for yourself, write down and focus on the details of what you want - what breed, what color, boy or girl, etc.

The clearer the image is of what you want, the easier it will be to visualize it and bring it into it's physical form! That is what this experiment is all about, being specific!

I had 48 hours to create something specific. I chose to bring into my life purple flowers. I was only specific with the color, but wanted to see how it would go because I was having a hard time picking something to test this experiment on.

Pixabay - NickRivers

My Results:
I feel as though I had better results with the other two experiments that I've completed. My husband and I were using his computer for something and at the end he closed out of his browser and there were the purple flowers! They were on his desktop background. I may not have created them to have in my hands physically but I did bring them into my world in some way! If I had tried a little bit harder on this experiment, I truly believe that I could have created it physically, but now I know for future creations to spend more time on bringing it to me in a more physical form!

What are you creating in your life? Are you being specific to it's description? We would like to hear! Please share with us. (:

Sara 

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E2 Experiment #2 - What I focus on...

Have you ever bought/leased a car and as soon as you have it you seen them EVERYWHERE? But beforehand, you never seen them ever! This is because what are minds are focused on, we will bring forth to us. Your mind is so focused on your new car that you are attracting more of the same into your life!

This brings me to my second E2 Experiment! This one is also very simple. It lasts for 48 hours. For the first twenty-four hours, you should pick something to focus on and see how many of that item you see in that day. Then, do the same thing for the next twenty-four hours but change the item for the second day!

First 24 Hours - Any silver vehicle
Second 24 Hours - Dogs

I went with two things that spoke/resonated with me. I'm not sure why silver vehicles talked to me; it was more so the color I think. Something told me to just go with silver, so I did! I've always loved dogs! I have a want list taped next to my bed and on that list is a German Shepherd! I can't wait for that day and know it is closely approaching. Just thinking about it makes me warm and happy inside! 

Photo Cred: CristainFerronato (Pixabay)

My Results:

Silver Cars - I seen and picked out 8 silver cars in the first day. This may not seem like a lot, but you don't realize how many things just pass you by that you don't pay attention too. It makes me wonder how many times have opportunities been right in front of us to get closer to our desires that we ignored. Hmm.
Dogs - This day, I will admit, my energy was a little out of it. I was tired and not entirely focused. However, I still had a decent outcome of 7 dogs! Not too shabby in my opinion.

This was a fun and exciting experiment to take part in. And like I said in the last post, if you want to try these out then get Pam Grout's book called E Squared! I do not think you will regret it.
Find Her Book on Barnes & Noble

Sara
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It's a Choice

It seems like it has become popular to give up on being positive and this 'lifestyle' after a certain amount of time. I'm not sure why this is, but I can say that I have experienced this multiple time. 

Photo Cred - Pixabay (fancycrave1) 

In the past, I have made the choice to be positive and look for the good in everything. Usually, I keep it up for a few weeks but then I give up at it. Research has shown us that it takes 21 days to create a habit. Now, some may say, believe, or think that bigger tasks might take longer than the 21 day mark. Why do we give up on ourselves in this way? Mostly because those negative factors come in and take over when the positive factors aren't strong enough yet. I think that probably plays a major role in it. 

I have made the vow to myself to not stray off the path this time. I have been doing it for about a month and a half now and my drive for wanting to stay positive is stronger than ever! I know for a fact that I don't want to look back at my life at the age of 50 and regret all the years I wasted. I want to live a fulfilled life doing things that excite me and bring me joy! You should want this too!!! 

A few things that I have been doing to keep myself on this straight and narrow path of posivity... 

1. I have one person that is my rock in this and that person is my husband. If he sees me falling down into the dumps of negativity, he helps lift me right back up where I belong. For his kindness and care, I am so grateful!

2. I try to broaden my knowledge every day. I try to grow every day in a way that I wasn't yesterday. In that past, I didn't do this and you wouldn't believe how much it has been helping me this time around!!

3. I stay aware of my thoughts and actions. This isn't always easy to do but very rewarding when I am able to stick with it. By staying aware, I can catch myself if I am having a bad thought or reliving a negative experience from my past. Easily, I am able to change it over to the good and focus my attention on my blessings. 

Now, nobody is perfect. There are days we may stray away a little bit. There are days I stray away a little bit and that is okay! The important thing to do is recognize we are straying and try to do something to pick ourselves back up! 

What do you do to keep yourself lifted up, positive, and focused on a more fulfilled and rewarding life?

Sara 

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